Whether you've already agreed how to divide things or would like help reaching agreement, I work with you both together to put a fair, legally binding financial settlement in place
✔ A calm, respectful process
✔ Fixed fees - no surprises
✔ Everything finalised properly
If you've separated and you're ready to resolve your finances sensibly: 👉 book a call so we can determine whether this shared approach is appropriate for you both
Whether you've already agreed how to divide things or would like help reaching agreement, I work with you both together to put a fair, legally binding financial agreement in place
If you've separated and you're ready to resolve your finances sensibly: 👉 book a call so we can determine whether this shared approach is appropriate for you both
5 Ways to Keep Financial Discussions Calm and Constructive
A practical guide for separating couples
5 Ways to Keep Financial Discussions Calm and Constructive
A practical guide for separating couples
I work with both partners together, guiding you through the process of agreeing how to divide your finances as part of your divorce.
My clear, structured process eases tension – allowing conversations about your future to be calmer and more constructive.
I’m not here to take sides.
My role is to guide you towards a fair, practical financial agreement you both feel comfortable with - so you can move forward knowing everything is properly settled.
I’m so grateful to you for all you have done for us. The outcome would have been very different without you.
- Maria
Applying for your divorce is a straightforward process via the Government Website.
When you come to agree how to separate your finances fairly, clear, independent legal advice protects you both.
That’s where I come in.
Whilst having separate solicitors naturally creates differing positions, one shared solicitor keeps the process collaborative and focused on what’s reasonable.
My focus is on helping you reach a financially fair agreement and ensuring it is properly approved by the court - so you can move forward knowing everything is settled.
"Thank you so much for making this happen.
I'm very happy that we have finally got to an amicable agreement.
It's all quite overwhelming. I've just been taking in the finality of it all, over this weekend.
Again, thank you for your efforts and your patience. You got it done! "
- Jeff
By the time we finish working together, you will have a legally binding consent order approved by a judge.
It will formalise your agreement and bring your financial ties to an end, so you can move forward knowing everything is properly settled.
And any future windfall - an inheritance, business success - or even a lottery win :) - will be entirely yours!
Susan has been a fantastic help in sorting our Financial Consent Order. The advice and assistance she gave has been invaluable.
She has acted in both our interests and provided great advice to us both. I cannot recommend her enough...thank you Susan.
- Jaye
I work on a straightforward fixed-fee basis, so you know from the outset what the cost will be.
There are no hourly rates and no hidden charges.
Because you are working with one shared solicitor, the overall cost is significantly lower than instructing two separate solicitors, and substantially less than pursuing matters through court.
For couples who want calm, structured legal support in reaching a fair agreement - without going to court.
I work with both of you together to reach a financially fair and legally sound agreement, in a similar way a mediator does.
This option provides clear structure and legal guidance, so discussions remain focused and grounded in what the law considers fair.
I do not take sides. My role is to keep the process steady and moving forward - ensuring full financial disclosure, explaining the legal position, and helping resolve sticking points before they escalate.
✅ What’s included:
✔ A structured financial disclosure process for transparency
✔ Shared legal guidance for you both
✔ Calm discussions to come to a fair agreement
✔ A professionally drafted Separation Agreement
✔ A completed Consent Order, ready for court approval
✔ Support with all required court paperwork
Fixed fee: £1,750 per person (£3,500 per couple)
You can find my terms and conditions of engagement here.
Outcome:
A financially fair agreement, formally approved by the court - so you can both move on with peace of mind, knowing everything's settled.
For couples who’ve already agreed the financial terms and would like them checked and formalised properly.
If you have worked things out together but want a solicitor to review the agreement and put it into legally binding form, this option ensures it is fair, workable and capable of being approved by the court.
I will review your proposed agreement, raise any necessary questions, and prepare the documents required for court approval.
✅ What’s included:
✔ A focused financial disclosure process
✔ A full legal review of your proposed agreement
✔ Shared legal guidance on whether it's balanced and fair
✔ A professionally drafted Separation Agreement
✔ Preparation of the Consent Order, ready for court approval
✔ Support with all required court paperwork
Fixed fee: £1,250 per person (£2,500 per couple)
You can find my terms and conditions of engagement here.
Outcome:
A legally binding, court-approved agreement that formally brings your financial arrangements to a close - so you can move forward knowing it has been properly dealt with.
⚖️ What is a Consent Order?
A Consent Order is a legally binding document approved by a judge, confirming how your assets, pension, debts and income will be divided following your divorce.
It will usually include a clean break, meaning neither of you can make future financial claims against the other.
🔒 Do we really need one?
Yes - absolutely.
Without a Consent Order, either of you could make a future financial claim, even years after your divorce.
It’s also the only way pensions can be shared legally.
⏳ When can we apply for a Consent Order?
Once your Conditional Order is granted (usually around 24 weeks after starting the divorce process).
I generally recommend submitting the Consent Order before applying for the Final Order, so everything is formally resolved at the point your divorce is finalised.
🛡️ Why also have a Separation Agreement?
A Separation Agreement is helpful when:
It provides an added layer of protection during that interim period.
I’ve seen cases where one spouse tried to backtrack at the last minute. Because there was a signed Separation Agreement, the other could have enforced it if needed - and everything stayed on track. Without it, they would have been back at square one after months of progress.
👉 In simple terms:
A Consent Order gives you finality.
A Separation Agreement gives you clarity and protection along the way.
Yes Divorce is a significant life event - but the financial side does not have to feel overwhelming.
Handled in a clear and structured way, it can be resolved fairly and properly.
My role is to ensure your financial arrangements are fairly greed, formally recorded and legally secured - so you can both move forward knowing everything has been dealt with.
Many couples tell me that once everything is approved and in place, the sense of tension lifts. They can focus on the future, knowing the financial side was handled fairly, sensibly and amicably.
If you and your partner are ready to settle your finances fairly and interested in exploring this joint approach, the next step is an initial call.
For most couples, no.
Court is usually the most adversarial and expensive route. It can take years and significantly increase conflict.
Where both partners are willing to be transparent and constructive, reaching agreement together is typically simpler, faster and far more cost-effect.
In some situations, yes - particularly where there is abuse, serious mistrust or concerns about hidden assets.
Separate solicitors may be needed if there is: abuse, serious mistrust or concerns about hidden assets.
But where both partners want a respectful and practical resolution, two solicitors can unintentionally harden positions and increase costs.
Working together with just one solicitor keeps the process calmer and significantly more affordable.
Mediation can work well for some couples.
However, mediators cannot provide legal advice or draft the legally binding documents required for court approval.
My service combines structured legal guidance with preparation of the formal documents - so your agreement is both fair and legally binding.
My fees are fixed and transparent.
Court fees are payable separately:
- £612 to start your divorce online
- £60 to submit your Consent Order to court
Additional costs may arise if pensions are shared or property is transferred. I will explain clearly what applies to your circumstances before you proceed.
I am regulated by the Solicitors Regulation Authority (SRA Number 8013506) and work directly with clients, without being part of a traditional firm.
This allows for a more personal service, clear communication and fixed fees - with one solicitor handling your matter from start to finish.
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📩 If you’ve already separated and interested in sharing a solicitor let’s begin with a free call. Fill in the form below or email me at susan@divorcingamicably.co.uk
Before starting the separation process, I had a free consultation with a solicitor. It felt daunting and far too much for our circumstances.
Ours was a fairly simple and amicable situation. We’d already agreed to apply online ourselves, since we had few shared assets and the legal fees we’d each been quoted seemed completely disproportionate.
But even with an amicable separation, it still felt daunting to do it all with no legal support - especially once we started talking about how to divide our assets.
That’s when I found Susan, who works with both partners together.
She made the whole process easier and more transparent for us both. We stayed amicable, felt supported every step of the way, and avoided the stress and expense of two separate lawyers.
I can’t recommend her highly enough
- Kelly
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